If you’re looking for a naughty night of fun, I highly recommend trying out a little ‘tie-me-up’ action. According to experts like Laura Berman, LCSW, Ph.D, to be ‘take against their will’ is a common fantasy among women. Why, you ask? Well here are 3 reasons, straight from me, a true fan:

1. Trust – To truly and completely enjoy an experience like this, you MUST trust your partner. Part of the excitement is the ability to let go, the freedom to give the control. Knowing your partner wants to give you pleasure and connect with you at a level beyond the standard builds a connection that cannot be captured with words.

2. Heighted Senses – When you are blindfolded and tied-down, you can’t see or move, you anticipate each and every move from your lover using only your ‘free’ senses. You can hear him/her moving, you feel as he/ she touches you. You know that ‘things’ are going to happen and your mind runs wild. Each touch is like electricity running through you. It is very, very sensuous.

3. Fun – Plain and simple; playing with your lover is fun. When you have fun with someone you remember why you love them.

If you are nervous about experimenting with restraints, I recommend trying Adam & Eve’s Sexy Slave Kit. Despite the name, this kit is a perfect way to try it out without feeling trapped.

Don’t take it from just me, purchasers of the kit agree:

• “What a great way to spice things up. The restraints were soft and easy to break free from but also a pure pleasure to use.”
• “I liked this product because of the feather, and the fact that you can get out of the restraints whenever you want. You don’t feel trapped”
• “Great starter kit for the timid. Good quality and very easy to use and set up. I would recommend for anyone.”
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