Because Bella Out Loud knows that Moms have sex too, we are dedicated to helping them keep their relationship spicy by providing information, resources and tools that support them as they explore and have fun with sex while strengthening the bond with their partner.

Who is Bella?
I, Bella, am a single, 30-something-ish mother of two with a penchant for the non-standard. My children are, boy 10 and girl 5. I have an awesome man in my life…he is awesome.

Non-standard you say? What the hell does that mean?
Over the years I have learned that the best way to live is the way that suits you and your family. Sometimes the best way for you does not fit into the standard size picture frame…so I say, get a custom one; and if you can’t afford a custom one, make it yourself.

When I chose to get a divorce, my ‘custom frame construction’ began. I’m still tweaking, but being true to myself and making my own way is one of the best things I’ve done.

Why I started Bella Out Loud
Because my first marriage failed, I find relationships interesting. How and why they work or don’t; things you can do to keep the relationship healthy; keeping things sexy even after years together…etc. What I learn, or have learned, I will share here, hopefully providing some insight for others.

I also enjoy sex…it’s fun and healthy. The sad thing is, many parents have little time for it, even if they still have interest. Helping parents, married, single or otherwise, bring sex back into their lives is important to me, so if I’ve tried a new game or product, read a book or experimented with a restraint device, I’ll share my opinions regularly–it’s all to help you, nothing to do with my sex life

Words to live by…IMO, anway

“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” – Dr. Suess